LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF AS WELL AS BUILDING YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE
Our topics of today are learning to love yourself and building your self confidence.
I'll be changing from relationships to learning loving yourself and building your self confidence.
LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF.
On today's post I will be talking on loving ourselves and how to do so.
It just seems to me that the hardest person to love is really "yourself".
What does it mean to love yourself?
Loving yourself means accepting yourself.
What do I mean by accepting yourself?
Many pple really hate the way they are, the way they look. They really think dey shld look better or more like a celebrity. But they are wrong we are all wrong if we feel so.
You should never be ashamed of who you are or what you look like. Because you are the son or daughter of a farmer should not make you look down on your self. you should not hate yourself because you feel you aren't beautiful no u shouldn't.
when you look down on yourself you actually give people the right to do same. As Kelly Sheridan said "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent". So you need to love yourself and stop giving pple the right to make you feel inferior or useless. people cant do that if you show them that you are the "owner of your life" and you love it the way it is.
Building your self confidence.
One of the ways through which self esteem can be fit is through body image. When you have a good bath put on your best clothes and shoes you do feel good right? That is self confidence.
That is because you know you look great so in order for you to always be confident of your self you need to take care of yourself.
Don't let your confidence depend on people or things don't wait for pples approval of your looks before you feel good about yourself. Just do your best and it will be ok.
Love yourself the way you are because you are never gonna change or look like the celebrity you wish to look like. If God thought you weren't good enough he would not have let you come into the world. You are not an accident.
It actually takes time to love yourself because it's a process. Bt the more you take care of yourself the more you get to love yourself.
How many times have you said "I'm worthless" or " I'm useless"? Well, my friend, that is not the truth. Every individual is born for a purpose and you just need to find yours.
It all starts with what you love doing best. Is it painting, dancing, singing, cooking? No matter where your interests may lie, you can become an expert. Taking the first step is always the most difficult thing to do but you need to find that leap of faith to take take that initial step.
You will obviously find that road ahead easier and your self confidence will increase in no timeWe might not really be who we want to love but we can change that. Here are 5 steps which will help you to improve on yourself.
1.Make a to do list of good habits you want to acquire and focus on achieving them. You can give a time period for you to habituate these good habits like 1 months or 3 months. Taking one by each in order not to pile so many n finally giving up on them. Make sure to as well visualize these habits and give a why to them. For example if the good habit I want to atain is drinking water. I'll visualize myself drinking at least 12glasses each day. For the why part you need to knw why you want to cultivate these habits so as to motivate you to do so. For example, if I aim at exercising daily I need to have a concrete reason. I might be a straight gown lover I don't really have a shape that matched this brand of clothes so I decided to exercise more and burn down fats in order for my shape to match these clothes.
2. Acknowledge your flaws. In order for you to make yourself a more lovable person, it will be good to know what are your bad habits or flaws so you can start working on them.
3. Learn from those who inspire you. Those classic models and superstars we all want to be like obviously felt worthless at one point in their lives but they did not give up on the dreams and that made them who they are today. You can as well copy their example and learn from them and from them you will see that it all entails confidence in ones self to achieve your desire
4. Last of all, get in to action. If you want to learn you need to take action. Why wait any longer?
Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat @Rose Kezy. Stay tuned for more interesting blog posts .
I'll be changing from relationships to learning loving yourself and building your self confidence.
LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF.
On today's post I will be talking on loving ourselves and how to do so.
It just seems to me that the hardest person to love is really "yourself".
What does it mean to love yourself?
Loving yourself means accepting yourself.
What do I mean by accepting yourself?
Many pple really hate the way they are, the way they look. They really think dey shld look better or more like a celebrity. But they are wrong we are all wrong if we feel so.
You should never be ashamed of who you are or what you look like. Because you are the son or daughter of a farmer should not make you look down on your self. you should not hate yourself because you feel you aren't beautiful no u shouldn't.
when you look down on yourself you actually give people the right to do same. As Kelly Sheridan said "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent". So you need to love yourself and stop giving pple the right to make you feel inferior or useless. people cant do that if you show them that you are the "owner of your life" and you love it the way it is.
Building your self confidence.
One of the ways through which self esteem can be fit is through body image. When you have a good bath put on your best clothes and shoes you do feel good right? That is self confidence.
That is because you know you look great so in order for you to always be confident of your self you need to take care of yourself.
Don't let your confidence depend on people or things don't wait for pples approval of your looks before you feel good about yourself. Just do your best and it will be ok.
Love yourself the way you are because you are never gonna change or look like the celebrity you wish to look like. If God thought you weren't good enough he would not have let you come into the world. You are not an accident.
It actually takes time to love yourself because it's a process. Bt the more you take care of yourself the more you get to love yourself.
How many times have you said "I'm worthless" or " I'm useless"? Well, my friend, that is not the truth. Every individual is born for a purpose and you just need to find yours.
It all starts with what you love doing best. Is it painting, dancing, singing, cooking? No matter where your interests may lie, you can become an expert. Taking the first step is always the most difficult thing to do but you need to find that leap of faith to take take that initial step.
You will obviously find that road ahead easier and your self confidence will increase in no timeWe might not really be who we want to love but we can change that. Here are 5 steps which will help you to improve on yourself.
1.Make a to do list of good habits you want to acquire and focus on achieving them. You can give a time period for you to habituate these good habits like 1 months or 3 months. Taking one by each in order not to pile so many n finally giving up on them. Make sure to as well visualize these habits and give a why to them. For example if the good habit I want to atain is drinking water. I'll visualize myself drinking at least 12glasses each day. For the why part you need to knw why you want to cultivate these habits so as to motivate you to do so. For example, if I aim at exercising daily I need to have a concrete reason. I might be a straight gown lover I don't really have a shape that matched this brand of clothes so I decided to exercise more and burn down fats in order for my shape to match these clothes.
2. Acknowledge your flaws. In order for you to make yourself a more lovable person, it will be good to know what are your bad habits or flaws so you can start working on them.
3. Learn from those who inspire you. Those classic models and superstars we all want to be like obviously felt worthless at one point in their lives but they did not give up on the dreams and that made them who they are today. You can as well copy their example and learn from them and from them you will see that it all entails confidence in ones self to achieve your desire
4. Last of all, get in to action. If you want to learn you need to take action. Why wait any longer?
Follow me on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat @Rose Kezy. Stay tuned for more interesting blog posts .
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